Wednesday, June 24, 2015

Guys, Not Everyone With A Confederate Flag Is Racist!

If I had a dollar for every time I saw a Facebook post that made me angry, I could afford to get guac on my burritos when I go to chipotle because I would be considerably well off. I have quite the diverse range of Facebook friends, so I see a diverse range of opinions in my Newsfeed. Usually, I just ignore people and let them be. However, this time I just got so heated I had to write out a few things in order to vent, and it’s turned into a blog post.

I’ll get right to the point. I have noticed that there are a lot of people who are upset about the confederate flag being removed. A few southern states have already removed them from their state grounds, and more states may follow their example. Some stores like wal mart have decided to stop selling confederate flag merchandise. And because of these decisions, some folks in the south feel like their “history is being taken from them.”

I have no idea where to even begin addressing this. Let’s just try to break it all down and see if we can get at the heart of what is upsetting people. The confederate flag is a symbol. Indeed, it represents a particular history, a particular experience, a particular culture. It is a symbol of Southern pride—but only for some people. The key point that those who are so desperately clinging to this flag while simultaneously proclaiming “I’m not a racist!” seem to be missing is that that flag means something completely different to black Americans. For them, it is also a symbol. It also represents a particular history, experience, and culture, but it is NOT a source of pride.

That flag has been the icon of black oppression since the civil war. It is an icon of hate. It is a symbol that creates division. Our country is in desperate need of racial healing, and clinging to the confederate flag for the sake of preserving your history sends a message to your neighbors that their history and experience is less important than yours. After all, what are you really trying to preserve? What does the flag really represent? It represents a tradition of hierarchy where whites hold all the power and blacks are treated as second-class citizens, or worse. The confederate flag reminds us of who has held the power all throughout US history, and now this refusal to let it go is further evidence that our modern day situation has not improved much. White Americans still have the upper hand, and that hand is a clenched fist wrapped around a confederate flag.

If we truly want to move forward as a nation, if we truly seek equality, then those in power have to be willing to surrender this false sense of entitlement. Change cannot happen without making sacrifices, and at this point I’m talking about more than just a stupid flag. We need humility, grace, and mercy. We need to acknowledge the hurting that is going on in our very own communities.

It is easy to dismiss events like the tragedy in Charleston because we can tell ourselves that it was just the extreme actions of a terrorist. But the ugly truth is that our complacency as a nation to the plight of the black community has contributed to a culture of hate that allows such events to take place. Nine black Americans--our brothers and sisters--were gunned down in a church. Nine innocent people were violently murdered simply for being black, and yet YOU are the ones who feel threatened?

Lord, in your mercy, hear our prayer.